A curious statement became a trend on Japanese social media: “The main reason to stop being an otaku is because of other otakus“. This phrase generated a wave of discussions and reflections among users of platforms such as Twitter, where fans expressed their frustration with the otaku community and how the actions of others can influence their own interests.

The statement resonated especially with those who have experienced what they call “otaku burnout,” a situation in which pressure or behavior from other fans causes them to lose interest in the franchises and characters they once loved. While the love for the series and characters is still present, interacting with “problematic otaku” can make some people prefer to distance themselves from the community or even the industry in general.

One of the comments that captured this sentiment said: “When you're turned off by something you like, it's usually because of the actions or behavior of other fans. I'm aware of this myself and try to be careful, but sometimes I find myself being viewed negatively.“This user recognizes that the otaku community can be complicated, and while he tries to avoid conflict, he is aware that others perceive him negatively simply because of his affiliation with the fandom.

Another person mentioned a similar experience: “While I haven't completely stopped being an otaku, I often find myself not attending events because of other otaku. This happens in both rock and idol music. When otakus start constantly seeking approval from others, that's when corruption begins..” This comment highlights how, in many cases, the desire for validation within the community can trigger toxic behaviors.

Additionally, the idea was shared that many otaku reach a point where they “don’t want to be associated” with certain fan groups.I often feel that way. I don't want to be associated with them.“wrote one user, suggesting that The stigma of being seen as part of an unpleasant community leads them to distance themselves, even from their own hobbies..

Social pressure within the fandom has also been a subject of debate. One user commented: “That's why I think if you really love something, you should avoid involving other people as much as possible and you shouldn't flaunt it either.“. The situation has even affected players of popular titles. One Blue Archive fan mentioned: “I left the Blue Archive because the other otakus were very unpleasant. I didn't want to be seen as one of them.“.

Other comments also highlighted the negative impact on relationships with favorite characters: “I understand perfectly... It happened to me in two communities. I love my favorite character, but the behavior of other otakus cooled my passion for them.“. Despite everything, not everyone shares the same position. One fan expressed a different perspective: “I got so lonely that even though other otakus annoyed me, it was never a good enough reason to leave happily.“.

The phenomenon of leaving fandom because of other otaku is a reflection of how social dynamics within any community can influence personal experiences. While the reasons for following or unfollowing content may vary, it’s clear that the behavior of other fans plays a big role in many people’s decisions.

Source: Otakomu