The popular mangaka and influencer “Anju-sensei (あんじゅ先生)” caused controversy on Japanese social media after sharing her personal experience of finding a partner. Despite having an annual income of 13 million yen (over $91,000) and a successful career as an author from the bestseller “I Became a Freelancer Knowing Nothing About Money, So Tell Me How to Avoid Losing Money to Taxes!” Anju revealed that her search for a partner has been much more difficult than expected.

In May of this year, Anju-sensei posted an illustration on Twitter promoting her “active search for a partner,” along with a detailed personal description. Although her post garnered over 843 million impressions, it only received four direct messages (DMs), which left her surprised and frustrated: “I thought I would have more success, but I only got four messages. It was a blow to my self-esteem.», commented Anju.

Why would someone so successful have a hard time in the dating world?

Anju attributes part of her difficulties to her freelance lifestyle, which reduces her opportunities to meet new people. In addition, the artist highlights that, over the years, she has received less attention from men. «When I was in college and working as an employee, I got a lot more attention. It's funny how men seem to prefer a 25-year-old employee with a modest income over a 36-year-old freelancer with a much higher salary.», he explained.

Despite the initial lack of success, Anju did have the opportunity to meet one of the people who wrote to her. Although the meeting did not result in a formal relationship, she says it was a positive experience and hopes to find someone she can connect with emotionally in the future.

Controversies surrounding his search for a partner

Anju's search for a partner has generated both positive and critical comments on social media, with some suggesting that her social media search campaign could be part of a publicity stunt to promote her work. However, Anju has been emphatic in her sincerity, ensuring that she analyzes all the messages she receives and responds to those she finds interesting.

Apart from the criticism, Anju expressed that she is in no rush to get married. He also mentioned that a consultation with a fortune teller made him rethink his situation, recommending that he not look for a partner just to fill an emotional void. With this new perspective, you decided to focus on your work for the next few years and dedicate your time to finding the right person.

The artist also shared details of her previous relationships, where circumstances were not always the best. From a relationship with a man who suffered from health issues due to stress at work, to a relationship with a gambling addict, Anju has faced a series of challenges that have complicated her love life.

A message for those looking for a partner

Despite the difficulties, Anju continues her search with optimism and shares a message for those who are also struggling to find their ideal partner: «It’s important to be clear and honest from the start. There’s no need to play with emotions or complicate things. If you’re interested in someone, communicate it honestly.», he advises.

Although her search for a partner was more complicated than she expected, Anju-sensei remains determined to find her life partner, and with her genuine desire to start a family, she is confident that she will eventually achieve this.

Source: Yahoo! News Japan