Recently, an anonymous post on an online community in Japan sparked intense debate among netizens. The author of the post, a 32-year-old woman looking for a partner, shared a detailed list of requirements she considers essential in a future husband. However, its strict conditions caused a wave of negative reactions and sarcastic comments from the community.

The woman explained that You wouldn't tolerate your partner playing video games or mobile gamesconsidering it a “stupid waste of time” and? “Spending money on microtransactions is absolutely unacceptable”. He also established that man I shouldn't have any interest in bettingsuch as horse racing or pachinko, classifying those who do so as people of low intelligence because they engage in activities with “negative expectations”.

Other items on your list include rejection of men who are interested in idolscomparing them to those who spend their days on internet forums. Furthermore, it specifies that I wouldn't tolerate someone who smokes or drinksbecause it considers both activities as “actions that deteriorate health and are absurd”. It also demands that the man is not a “netouyo” (extreme nationalist on the internet) or a misogynistand be extremely careful when sharing personal information on social media.

Furthermore, the woman added that her ideal partner “shouldn't be interested in entertainment news” and must “being able to spend your free time perfectly well with just a book”. Finally, he emphasizes that he doesn't care if man wins alone 4 million yen per year (about 28 thousand dollars) and mentions that “There are many men like that, right?”.

This post sparked a series of responses among Japanese internet users, who did not hesitate to express their opinions, often with a sarcastic or critical tone.

• «I understand you are looking for a human ATM».
• «What about the anime? Why didn't you mention the anime?».
• «Because it is repulsive».
• «And you, what do you have to offer?».
• «a rotten womb».
• «Hey! There are things that shouldn't be said».
• «I was rejected from a date because I mentioned that I invested in stocks.».
• «I can't stand men who never stop talking. There are some who never shut up.».
• «Whether you've written seriously or as fiction, you need professional help.».
• «I hate people who post this kind of stuff on the internet. They're so overrated.».
• «I don't want to commit to a woman over 30. I want to marry a young woman with big breasts.».
• «If the woman is over 30, the man is the one who makes the commitment. Women shouldn't talk about commitment until they're in their 20s.».
• «Women have it easy. If they join a dating app, even an unemployed, overweight, and disabled woman in her 30s will have hundreds of handsome millionaires asking her to marry them.».
• «Eventually, you'll complain about everything your husband does. He won't allow you to pursue hobbies like camping or working on your car.».
• «He's not interested in famous people, so he probably doesn't like watching sports either.».
• «I'm married and I play video games all the time. I even play 'Puyo Puyo' with my wife. I only have one thing to say to that woman: in life, whoever has the most fun wins.».
• «I'm 41 years old, I earn 8 million yen a year, and I'm a virgin. I'm looking for a woman who can take care of my parents. I wouldn't mind if you worked a little.».
• «What have you been doing for seven years? You should have had children before you're 25!».

The discussion about couples' standards and expectations in marriage is common in Japan, and this publication has reignited the debate about realistic expectations in a relationship.

Source: Yaraon!